When Does A Buyer Buy?

Dirty Little SecretsLet me say something you’re not going to like: If a buyer truly needed your solution they would have either bought it already or resolved their problem already.

David Sandler called the buyer’s need ‘Pain.’ But think about it: If you broke your arm, would you wait weeks/months/years to get it fixed? Of course not. So how can buyers wait to resolve their need when it’s so obvious (to us, of course) that using our solution would create a state of excellence that they are not experiencing?

Because of their system. The system that has created the ‘need’ is the same system that is holding it in place. Think about any extra weight you might have, or your inability to stop smoking, or your reluctance to work out as much as you know you should, or eat healthier. You’ve been talking about managing those issues for…for how long?? SOOO why aren’t you? You have the need, right? You have the “pain,” right? What’s the deal?

You will change – just like your buyer – when the system you live in (your work hours, your family issues, your identity and ego issues) is willing to be or do something different. Having a great gym near-by, having great clothes a size smaller, having a doc tell you you must shape up – none of those things are enough to get you to change (or you would have).

Unfortunately, sales only manages the need/solution part of a buyer’s buying decision, and has no tool kit to help the buyer recognize and manage the off-line, behind-the-scenes issues that must be addressed before the system is willing to make a change. Is the other department ready to bring in a new X? What about the old vendor? How will the team know how to choose between resolving This problem or That?

Sales doesn’t manage those issues. But decision facilitation does: Buying Facilitation™ is a change management, decision facilitation model that is NOT SALES but is a model sellers can use to help buyers recognize and manage their internal issues in order to insure buy-in for change. Just like you won’t lose weight, or work out more, or eat healthier unless you have internal buy-in (we don’t make decisions to change based on good data, or someone else’s opinion), so buyers won’t buy until they know that their system will remain intact and healthy after the addition of the new solution.

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Buyers will buy when the team buys-in to adding something new and getting rid of the old, when it’s clear the regular vendor can’t do the fix, when the other departments know how they are going to work alongside of the new solution. Sales doesn’t handle these issues, causing us to wait forever for buyers to decide, or to lose really good prospects that seemed a good fit.

Have a look at some chapters in my new book Dirty Little Secrets coming out October 15. I hope you like them. In addition, I’ll be doing a book launch for the entire week, with podcasts, radio shows, guest bloggers, etc. and wonderful freebies from good friends like Tony Parinello, Jill Konrath, Alen Majer, Anne Miller, and Lee Glickstein.

How would you know that adding a new skill set would help you get the results you deserve? Stay tuned!


8 thoughts on “When Does A Buyer Buy?”

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  2. I had the opportunity to preview Sharon's new book. She's brilliant and the topic is as well. I hope that all of you read her book and benefit from her outstanding work
    Duane Sparks
    Author of Action Selling

  3. this is quite an insight, and enlightening. buying decision many times is not based solely the skills of the salesexecutive to get his/her message or to persuade a customer to decide on his/her product. many times decision is based on past exerience from a similar product or cost effectiveness, which many times is discussed at boardroom level or management to which the sales executive is not privy to. For example your company has just started selling a new brand of cars new in the market.THEN YOU APPROACH A COMPANY WITH INTENT TO PLACE SOME OF YOUR brand new models. but unfortunately management of that company has decided to stick to their old brand for the next 5 years???? what do you do???there is also the personnal touch. man no man.

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